Once again when trying to do the loving kindness exercise this week, I found it hard to concentrate and relax enough to get the full benefits of it. I think it's mainly because I've again been very busy and not any kind of organized, which is making pretty much every day seem crazy! I can't stop thinking about other stuff long enough to fully get through this exercise yet, so I'm going to continue to try it out through the rest of the week (since that's what the book suggests doing) and then I'm going to update my blog about it. I will say that the second day I tried it I was able to focus just a little more than the first day so I assume it will get better by Tuesday! I would actually recommend others trying this exercise, but you really do need to take the authors advice and make sure to schedule it in like you do everything else in a day to make sure you actually have time to do it without worrying about what you have to do the rest of the day!
Mental workout basically means spending as much time making your mind fit as you do for your body. This is done in the opposite way, however, using silence, reflection, and meditation as opposed to most intense exercises we do to keep the outter parts of us in shape. Research shows that benefits from these workouts can yield short and long term effects on the brain and can reflect in our health and overall well-being. Taking time for daily meditation is probably the best way to reap the benefits one can have from these workouts.
Great suggestions! I did do the exercise a couple more times and I do need to update my blog or add a comment on the end to document my second and third experience with it. I have to say that I didn't notice a difference for myself but I think it's great that you did! I also think that for the best results this should be done before the start of your day, but realistically I am not able to do it until the end of the day when the house is more quiet and everyone is settled in for the night. By then I am just ready for bed and not revived from the exercise. I think that before recommending it to anyone, you would definitely need to explain it thoroughly and be sure that the person is open minded enough to take it seriously. I don't think most people would be. Great blog Erin! I always enjoy reading your posts. :)
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Yeah, I never have time to do it first thing in the morning either which is probably when it's most beneficial. I have been trying it at night when I get home from work, but by that point I'm still all wound up and worried about all the stuff I have to do as usual! lol Hopefully my trying it a couple more times will make some sort of difference, but we'll see!
DeleteI agree with your advice on trying the exercise repeatedly to really gain the benefits from it. Your explanation about using silence, reflection, and meditation really made things click for me, so for that I would like to thank you. It has really made a difference in how I experience these exercises now. I love following your blogs and look forward to next week.
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Aw, thanks! I'm glad you like them and they helped! :)
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